ive been playing a game called “dead by daylight” with my friend of 2 years recently. if you dont know the game, its an asymmetrical horror game where 4 survivors try to power up 5 generators and get out of ...Read more
First off, you're not alone in feeling this way—seriously, so many people go through this, even if they don’t show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesn’t mean you’re broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on you—like try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside evenRead more
First off, you’re not alone in feeling this way—seriously, so many people go through this, even if they don’t show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesn’t mean you’re broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on you—like try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside even if it’s just for a walk, or join online communities that vibe with your interests. You don’t need a boyfriend or a huge friend group to feel whole. Start by being your own hype person—learn to enjoy your own company, hype yourself up, take yourself on little solo dates, and just do things that make you feel good. When you start genuinely enjoying your own energy, the right people start getting drawn to it. Real connections come when you’re not desperately chasing them but just being your real self. You got this. 💛
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Honestly bro, this is just a playstyle clash. You’re playing for fun, trying different perks and enjoying those random clutch moments. He’s playing to win and wants everything optimized. Neither of you are wrong — you just want different things from the game. But yeah, if you keep forcing yourself tRead more
Honestly bro, this is just a playstyle clash.
You’re playing for fun, trying different perks and enjoying those random clutch moments. He’s playing to win and wants everything optimized. Neither of you are wrong — you just want different things from the game.
But yeah, if you keep forcing yourself to run meta every game, you gonna get bored fast. That’s normal.
What I’d say is just be straight with him once — like “I don’t enjoy running meta every game, I wanna have fun too.” Not in a defensive way, just chill about it.
If he’s a good friend, he’ll adjust a bit.
You can even do a mix — some matches serious (his way), some matches fun builds (your way). That usually fix this kind of thing.
But if he keep nagging you every game and not really listening, then don’t stop being friends — just maybe don’t play this game with him that much. Play solo or with others when you wanna try different stuff.
At the end of the day, it’s a game… if it start feeling like a job, something’s not right.
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