Yes, you can get married after Lag BaOmer! Here’s the deal: during the Counting of the Omer — the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot — it’s traditional for observant Jews to avoid celebrations like weddings, because it’s considered a semi-mourning period (due to a tragic plague that hit Rabbi AkivRead more
Yes, you can get married after Lag BaOmer!
Here’s the deal: during the Counting of the Omer — the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot — it’s traditional for observant Jews to avoid celebrations like weddings, because it’s considered a semi-mourning period (due to a tragic plague that hit Rabbi Akiva’s students, according to tradition).
But! Lag BaOmer, which falls on the 33rd day, is a break in that mourning. It’s a celebratory day — bonfires, music, even haircuts for little boys. So once Lag BaOmer hits, weddings are totally back on the table for many people, especially starting that evening.
Some more traditional or stricter communities might wait a bit longer depending on their customs, but for most, yes — weddings after Lag BaOmer are a go.
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During the Counting of the Omer season, Lag BaOmer is a happy day that is marked by communal celebrations, bonfires, and music. Fires and Festive Get-TogethersLighting bonfires is one of the most recognizable Lag BaOmer customs. These represent the teachings and spiritual light of Rabbi Shimon bar YRead more
During the Counting of the Omer season, Lag BaOmer is a happy day that is marked by communal celebrations, bonfires, and music.
Fires and Festive Get-Togethers
Lighting bonfires is one of the most recognizable Lag BaOmer customs. These represent the teachings and spiritual light of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a revered Jewish sage who is thought to have died on this day. Around the fire, families and friends congregate to roast food, tell stories, sing songs, and take in the evening.
Outdoor Activities and Picnics
Lag BaOmer is frequently spent outside. Hikes, nature excursions, and family picnics are popular activities. Children are playing games in parks and open areas, particularly archery with toy bows and arrows, a custom associated with the rainbow’s symbolism.
Visiting Rabbi Shimon’s Tomb
In Israel, thousands of people make a pilgrimage to Meron, the burial site of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai. There, crowds celebrate with music, dancing, and massive bonfires in his honor. It’s one of the largest Jewish gatherings of the year.
The First Haircut – Upsherin
For many religious families, especially in Hasidic communities, Lag BaOmer marks a milestone for three-year-old boys: their first haircut, called upsherin. This tradition is based on the idea of spiritual growth, and the day’s special status allows hair cutting even during the otherwise solemn Omer period.
Weddings and Celebrations
Because of the semi-mourning nature of the Omer period, weddings and parties are generally avoided—except on Lag BaOmer. It’s considered an especially lucky and joyful day for couples to get married and for families to host celebratory events.
Why the Joy?
See lessTradition says the sadness of the Omer lifts on this day. According to Jewish teachings, a deadly plague that killed thousands of Rabbi Akiva’s students ended on Lag BaOmer. The day is also linked to hidden miracles, spiritual breakthroughs, and hope—making it a welcome break from a somber season.