Bonfires are one of the most recognizable traditions of Lag BaOmer. They are lit at nightfall and can be seen glowing across hillsides, neighborhoods, and parks — especially in Israel. But why? Spiritual Light of Rabbi Shimon bar YochaiThe bonfires are most commonly said to honor Rabbi Shimon bar YoRead more
Bonfires are one of the most recognizable traditions of Lag BaOmer. They are lit at nightfall and can be seen glowing across hillsides, neighborhoods, and parks — especially in Israel. But why?
Spiritual Light of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai
The bonfires are most commonly said to honor Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a 2nd-century sage and mystic whose teachings are linked to the Kabbalistic text known as the Zohar. According to tradition, he passed away on Lag BaOmer, and on that very day, he revealed deep spiritual secrets to his students.
The flames symbolize the “spiritual light” he brought into the world — a light of wisdom, truth, and mysticism that continues to inspire Jewish thought today.
A Celebration of Hope and Illumination
Others see the bonfires as a metaphor for hope breaking through darkness, fitting for a day when mourning customs are paused and joy returns.
Possible Ancient Festival Roots
Some historians suggest that bonfires may also connect to older, seasonal fire festivals in the region, like May Day celebrations in Europe — though in Jewish tradition, the bonfire’s meaning is spiritual rather than seasonal.
Modern Celebrations
Today, bonfires are lit by families and communities. Children roast potatoes and marshmallows, sing songs, and dance around the flames — creating an atmosphere that is both festive and meaningful.
In short, Lag BaOmer bonfires represent the light of learning, the warmth of tradition, and the joy of community.
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Yes, you can get married after Lag BaOmer! Here’s the deal: during the Counting of the Omer — the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot — it’s traditional for observant Jews to avoid celebrations like weddings, because it’s considered a semi-mourning period (due to a tragic plague that hit Rabbi AkivRead more
Yes, you can get married after Lag BaOmer!
Here’s the deal: during the Counting of the Omer — the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot — it’s traditional for observant Jews to avoid celebrations like weddings, because it’s considered a semi-mourning period (due to a tragic plague that hit Rabbi Akiva’s students, according to tradition).
But! Lag BaOmer, which falls on the 33rd day, is a break in that mourning. It’s a celebratory day — bonfires, music, even haircuts for little boys. So once Lag BaOmer hits, weddings are totally back on the table for many people, especially starting that evening.
Some more traditional or stricter communities might wait a bit longer depending on their customs, but for most, yes — weddings after Lag BaOmer are a go.
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