I am lonely have no friends, no boyfriend what should I do?
it’s kinda wild how people can be deeply committed to something—even when it starts hurting them—and still hesitate to let it go. Sometimes it’s pride, fear, trauma, or just straight-up spiritual blindness. Like, if you’ve built your whole identity around a belief system, even if it starts to crumblRead more
it’s kinda wild how people can be deeply committed to something—even when it starts hurting them—and still hesitate to let it go. Sometimes it’s pride, fear, trauma, or just straight-up spiritual blindness. Like, if you’ve built your whole identity around a belief system, even if it starts to crumble, walking away feels like losing yourself. And let’s be real—running to Jesus means surrender, and surrender isn’t easy for anyone, especially if they’ve been taught that He’s the enemy or a lie.
Some might also feel too ashamed, like they’ve gone too far to be forgiven or accepted. But the crazy part is, Jesus always leaves the door open. No matter how far someone’s gone, He’s still like, “Come home.”
So yeah… it’s not always about not realizing—sometimes it’s about not being ready to admit the truth. Or being too afraid of what change might mean. But the moment someone truly sees who Jesus is, it changes everything.
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First off, you're not alone in feeling this way—seriously, so many people go through this, even if they don’t show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesn’t mean you’re broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on you—like try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside evenRead more
First off, you’re not alone in feeling this way—seriously, so many people go through this, even if they don’t show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesn’t mean you’re broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on you—like try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside even if it’s just for a walk, or join online communities that vibe with your interests. You don’t need a boyfriend or a huge friend group to feel whole. Start by being your own hype person—learn to enjoy your own company, hype yourself up, take yourself on little solo dates, and just do things that make you feel good. When you start genuinely enjoying your own energy, the right people start getting drawn to it. Real connections come when you’re not desperately chasing them but just being your real self. You got this. 💛
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