I am lonely have no friends, no boyfriend what should I do?
itβs kinda wild how people can be deeply committed to somethingβeven when it starts hurting themβand still hesitate to let it go. Sometimes itβs pride, fear, trauma, or just straight-up spiritual blindness. Like, if youβve built your whole identity around a belief system, even if it starts to crumblRead more
itβs kinda wild how people can be deeply committed to somethingβeven when it starts hurting themβand still hesitate to let it go. Sometimes itβs pride, fear, trauma, or just straight-up spiritual blindness. Like, if youβve built your whole identity around a belief system, even if it starts to crumble, walking away feels like losing yourself. And letβs be realβrunning to Jesus means surrender, and surrender isnβt easy for anyone, especially if theyβve been taught that Heβs the enemy or a lie.
Some might also feel too ashamed, like theyβve gone too far to be forgiven or accepted. But the crazy part is, Jesus always leaves the door open. No matter how far someoneβs gone, Heβs still like, βCome home.β
So yeahβ¦ itβs not always about not realizingβsometimes itβs about not being ready to admit the truth. Or being too afraid of what change might mean. But the moment someone truly sees who Jesus is, it changes everything.
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First off, you're not alone in feeling this wayβseriously, so many people go through this, even if they donβt show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesnβt mean youβre broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on youβlike try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside evenRead more
First off, you’re not alone in feeling this wayβseriously, so many people go through this, even if they donβt show it online. Being lonely sucks, but it doesnβt mean youβre broken or unlovable. Use this time to actually focus on youβlike try new hobbies, get into something creative, go outside even if itβs just for a walk, or join online communities that vibe with your interests. You donβt need a boyfriend or a huge friend group to feel whole. Start by being your own hype personβlearn to enjoy your own company, hype yourself up, take yourself on little solo dates, and just do things that make you feel good. When you start genuinely enjoying your own energy, the right people start getting drawn to it. Real connections come when youβre not desperately chasing them but just being your real self. You got this. π
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